He was so frustrated as he do not understand why i refused to let him hold on to the packet drink despite explaining to him numerous times. He insisted on his intention to hold on and indeed, the milo leaks out after he held on. He make a huge fuss when the milo drips on him and started crying. To be honest, it is frustrating for us as well as he is creating a mess all over himself.
I controlled my anger and rushed papaTan to request for a cup, pours out the milo to the cup,, add in the straw and ask Morris to drink from the straw. I let him hold on to the cup while trying to support from the bottom as i afraid he will just let go of it. Who knows he keep pushing my hands away rejecting my help but at least, he calms down thereafter.
I guess parenthood is a long learning process. It takes alot of patient as well as experiencing to know how to handle such situation. I was just glad that i did not flared at him when he did that today. I am glad that i hold on as i know he is frustrated as well. I made a point to myself that i will learn to understand him more as he is still trying to adapt and learn new things.
For extra information, i googled and understand that The terrible twos is a normal stage in which toddlers begin to struggle between their reliance on adults and their desire for independence. One minute your child might be clinging to you, and the next he or she is running in the opposite direction (SO TRUE!!!!)
Two-year-olds undergo major motor, intellectual, social and emotional changes. Their vocabularies are growing, they're eager to do things on their own, and they're beginning to discover that they're expected to follow certain rules. However, most 2-year-olds still aren't able to move as swiftly as they'd like, clearly communicate their needs or control their feelings. This can lead to frustration, misbehavior and tantrums.
During this time, expect that you and your child will occasionally lose patience with each other. Try to stay calm. When your child begins to get worked up, try to redirect his or her attention. If you can't distract your child, ignore him or her. If you're in public, take your child aside without discussion or fuss and wait until he or she has calmed down before continuing with your activity. Also, consider avoiding challenging situations — such as going shopping during your child's nap time — and be sure to praise your child for appropriate behavior.
By accepting the changes your child is going through and showing him or her love and respect, you'll help your child make it through this difficult stage with confidence.